Parenting is often described as one of life’s most rewarding yet challenging journeys. But for some, the journey becomes incredibly complex when faced with child-to-parent abuse (CPA). It is a topic rarely spoken about, yet it is a reality for many families across the UK and further afield. At PEGS, we understand the emotional toll this takes on parents, carers, and guardians. That is why our mission is to offer support, guidance, and advocacy to those affected.

PEGS was founded in 2019 and went operational in March 2020 after recognising a significant gap in services for parents experiencing abusive behaviours from their children. Based in Shropshire, but available nationally through online services, PEGS is committed to providing support that is accessible, compassionate, and tailored to the needs of each family.

Unlike traditional family support services, PEGS focuses solely on the parental figure. We understand that addressing CPA requires a whole-family approach, but we believe in empowering parents to navigate these challenging circumstances with confidence. Our services include practitioner-led group sessions, advocacy, workshops, and peer support, ensuring that no parent has to face this journey alone. All of our services are free to access and parental figures can access support for as long as they need via peer support, daily practitioner led sessions, workshops and programmes.

At PEGS, we offer a structured yet flexible support system designed to meet parents where they are in their journey. Our core services include:

• Daily Practitioner-Led Sessions: Held online, these sessions provide a safe, confidential space where parents can share experiences, gain advice, and receive emotional support.
• Workshops & Programmes: Designed to build resilience and empower parents, our workshops cover key topics that help parents regain confidence and develop effective coping strategies.
• Advocacy & Wellbeing Support: Whether it's providing letters to confirm engagement with our services or attending meetings alongside parents, we advocate on behalf of those experiencing CPA.
• Peer Support Community: Our closed and monitored Facebook group offers parents a place to connect with others who understand their experiences, fostering a sense of community and mutual support.
• One-to-One Support (Limited Availability): For those in funded areas, individualised support with a dedicated practitioner is available, offering tailored strategies and guidance.

Parental figures can self-refer to PEGS or be referred by a professional. Once a referral is received, our team conducts a triage process that may take up to 10 working days. Parents then receive an initial email outlining the services available and how to access them. If eligible for one-to-one support, they will be placed on a waiting list and contacted when a practitioner is available. In the meantime, they can still access all other group-based services.

Experiencing CPA can evoke a wide range of emotions, from guilt and helplessness to isolation and frustration. Our 2022 survey revealed that:

• 85% of parents felt isolated or alone
• 74% felt blamed
• 95% felt helpless
• 76% felt scared

These feelings are completely natural, and at PEGS, we strive to provide a non-judgemental space where parents can be heard, supported, and empowered to move forward in a way that feels right for them.

If you are experiencing child-to-parent abuse, please know that support is available. PEGS is here to listen, guide, and empower you through your journey. While our service is not a crisis helpline, we can provide you with the tools and support needed to navigate these challenges.

You can download our free booklet below which explains more about us and our services