Rising Voices, Growing Need: A 112% Surge in Referrals Highlights the Urgent Demand for CPA Support

PEGS Admin • April 11, 2025

Rising Voices, The Growing Need:

At PEGS, we exist to support, uplift and advocate for parental figures navigating the deeply complex

and often isolating experience of child-to-parent abuse (CPA). Every parent who reaches out is met

with compassion, understanding and a belief that their voice deserves to be heard. And now, more

voices than ever are reaching out.



Between the 1st and 9th of April 2025, PEGS saw a 112% increase in referrals compared to the same

period in 2024.



This is not just a number. It represents mothers, fathers, carers and guardians who are asking for

help, many for the first time, some after years of silently coping. It shows growing awareness, yes,

but also a clear and urgent demand for more support, more understanding, and more space to be

heard.



We are proud to be a not-for-profit organisation, meaning every penny and every ounce of energy

goes back into supporting the people who need us. But this dramatic rise in referrals brings with it

very real pressures on our small, dedicated team.



We are navigating increasing demand on our one-to-one services, our wellbeing sessions, and our

drop-ins. We’re fielding more requests for training, advice, advocacy, and crisis support than ever

before. And we’re doing all of this while managing limited resources, limited capacity and a

growing waiting list of parents who are desperately looking for support.



We do this work because we care. Because we know what it’s like. Because we’re a lived experience

organisation, and we’ve been where many of these parents are now. But we can’t do it alone.

The rise in referrals is a sign that more families are recognising CPA for what it is: a real, painful and

often misunderstood form of domestic abuse. But unless we can increase our capacity, there’s a risk

that those who reach out may have to wait longer for the support they urgently need.



That’s why we’re calling on our community, supporters, professionals and partners to stand with

us, so we can grow with the need, not fall behind it.


How You Can Help?

Whether you're an individual, a business, a professional or someone who simply believes in our

mission—there are so many ways to get involved:


Make a donation – Every contribution, big or small, makes a tangible difference to our

ability to offer support.


Fundraise for us – From sponsored walks to community coffee mornings, your creativity can

directly fuel our services.


Partner with us – We welcome corporate partnerships, payroll giving schemes, and charity

of the year nominations.


Raise awareness – Share our posts, talk about CPA, and help us break the silence around

child-to-parent abuse.


Volunteer your skills – From admin to social media, or from well-being to events, your time

can go a long way.


Advocate – If you work in a school, healthcare, social care, policing or community setting,

consider our training or signpost parents to our services.


Together, We Can Meet This Moment


This 112% increase is not just a statistic, t’s a message. Parents are speaking out. They are asking

for help. And now, more than ever, PEGS needs to be there to answer that call.

Let’s make sure no parent feels alone.

Let’s make sure every voice is heard.

Let’s grow the support to match the need.



To donate, get involved, or find out more: www.pegsupport.co.uk

Or connect with us on social media @pegs_support

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Child to Parent Abuse organisation founder awarded MBE The founder of a social enterprise which has supported thousands of parents impacted by abusive behaviours from their children has been awarded an MBE. Michelle John, originally from Pembrokeshire in Wales but now based in Shropshire, was among the names announced for the prestigious accolade in the King’s Birthday Honours List this year. In 2020, Michelle set up not-for-profit organisation PEGS with the aim of supporting parents and carers, training professionals, influencing local and national policy, and raising awareness of Child to Parent Abuse – which is thought to affect up to one in ten households in the UK. Since then, she has grown a team of experts who have trained police, social workers, teachers and many other professionals to better recognise the signs of CPA, support parents, and signpost to specialist organisations. In addition, Michelle set up a range of parent-focused initiatives including daily practitioner-led online sessions, a Facebook peer support group which now has 3,300 members, and one-to-one offerings for those at highest risk. PEGS launched a CPA Covenant for employers in partnership with the Department for Work and Pensions, only the fourth such covenant to be backed by the Government, and Michelle has advised everyone from the Home Office to Channel 4 and the BBC on CPA – the latter for storyline on Hollyoaks and EastEnders. Her work has seen CPA covered by journalists across television news programmes, national newspapers and magazine, and regional press and radio, and she’s received numerous awards both in the UK and internationally. Michelle, whose MBE was awarded for Family Support and Advocacy, said: “This honour is also shared with the parents who have trusted me along the way: they drive me, inspire me and I will always stand with them. “I feel proud, privileged and very grateful – and I’d like to thank everyone who has supported me and PEGS along the way. There is much more to come for PEGS, and we will continue to work every day for the parents and carers who have been or continue to be impacted by CPA. “There is so much to reflect on from the journey of the last six years, and there have been many highlights and challenges along the way. I am sure there will be many more in the future – although being told I’d received an MBE will always remain a truly incredible moment that I’ll remember forever!” For more information about us, visit www.pegsupport.co.uk or search for 'PEGS' on social media!
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